Choosing My Name: A Personal Journey to Being Rhonna-Rose

Names have power," this quote resonates deeply with me because I know firsthand how true it is. I used to go by a different name - Elizabeth - which is my grandmother's name. It wasn't until a coffee meeting with a colleague that I decided to make a life-changing decision and go by my real first name, Rhonna-Rose.

At first, it wasn't an easy choice. I faced severe backlash and "advice" from people who warned me that going by Rhonna-Rose could complicate my professional career. But I knew in my heart that it was the right decision, and I refused to back down. It took a lot of courage to make the change, and I had to go through the tedious process of changing my name on everything - my license, bank accounts, email addresses, and all my documentation.

However, the transformation was worth it because I finally felt like myself - Rhonna-Rose. Being Rhonna-Rose was real, and I felt more comfortable and confident than ever before. Of course, there were downsides. I would never walk into a store and see my name on things, something that was a reality I had to accept. But when a friend gifted me a custom-made coke bottle with my name on it, it meant the world to me. Here, in front of me, was something that confirmed I had made the right choice. I could be Rhonna-Rose - and that was all that mattered.

So let me tell you this - don't let anyone tell you who you should be. Choose to be who your heart desires, and the rest will fall into place. It takes courage and determination to stand up for yourself and make a change, but the freedom and happiness is priceless. I did it, and it's made all the difference in my life. I challenge you to do the same. Be bold, be fearless, and be the person you were always meant to be.